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A
couple of weeks ago, we began
our Sunday morning Introduction
to Judaism class. It is comprised
mostly of men and women considering
converting to Judaism, along with
fiances where applicable, as well
as members of the congregation
looking to learn more about the
basics of their faith.
It's
my custom each semester to spend
a few minutes with the class at
their opening session, to welcome
them to Emanu El and share some
thoughts with them about the spiritual
journey of those who are considering
conversion. As I looked around
the room, I saw a couple of familiar
faces and said a brief hello.
Then, as I finished my remarks
and was about to leave, I looked
to my left and saw a young man
who grew up at Emanu El but whom
I haven't seen in several years.
I
looked at him knowingly and said,
"How are you? Where have
you been? I bet I haven't seen
you in ten years. "
He
smiled back at me and replied
simply, "But I'm
back now!"
Needless
to say, I warmed at his answer.
Life is a spiritual journey for
all of us, not just those who
have come to our door from other
religions or from no religion.
At some points in our lives, that
journey may take us away from
home, at other points toward home.
I think what this young man was
basically saying to me was, "I've
been away from home for a while,
but it's now time for me to come
back."
This
going and coming is particularly
true of young people once they
leave home. There are many studies
of young people who go off to
college and lead lives totally
apart from family and community,
as they build the foundation for
their adulthood. It is not uncommon
for them as they begin to mature
and find someone to share life
with to return to their roots.
In this young man's case, it's
here in Houston in his home congregation.
It
struck me after I left that morning
that for many of the people in
the class, it was a coming home
for them too; it just didn't happen
to be in the congregation they
were raised in, since they live
here rather than where they were
raised.
It
is certainly not uncommon for
me to speak with concerned parents
whose children are in the "wandering"
phase of their spiritual life.
While there are no guarantees
what direction they will wind
up going in, I try to reassure
them that with time the odds are
their children will come home
to Judaism - that this is as much
a part of their independent self-discovery
as every other search.
Admittedly,
though I believe my advice, I
find myself sometimes skeptical.
But then I walk into the Intro
to Judaism class, and a young
person I haven't seen in years
smiles back at me and says, "But
I'm back now." And oh, how
welcome he is!
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